First Impression is usually the most deceiving one

I really don't understand why it is said that first impression is the best impression.

On & again in my life it has been proved that first impression is usually the most deceiving one.

The otherday, i had a pretty long conversation with a personwhom i hated in the beginning but then felt that i made a BIG mistake. Only during during the conversation did i discover that i had greatly mis-understood that.

As a first impression, i though the person to be someone whom i would define as a true JERK. But actually, it turned out that the person is someone who is matured, understanding, witty, humorous and almost everything that needs to make a person comfortable in a long chat. But, underneath all these things there is a very high feeling of Insecurity which make this person act in all these weird ways.

This is not the first time i was in a situation like this. So the only thing i have understood is that, never judge a person by his/her looks. If you really want to judge a person, then get close to that person.

Responsiblity: A side-effect of Freedom

My parents & bro are going to India for a month or more and i had to stay back b'coz i got my class going on.
Well, a long list of devilish plans, all planed & re-planed, highly fool-proof and ready for action was i for my HomeAlone adventure.

I always felt that my parents (mainly mom) was pampering me a lot & curbing the potential that was in me. And felt this was my only chance in life to prove to them that i am fit to survive on my own. So, it was a now or never kinda situation.

Well, time for departure and my Uncle came to drop my parents at the Airport. And there they go, giving me a once in a lifetime opportunity to prove myself. And there starts my journey without my over-protective parents.

Mom made food for the next few days. So, the responsibility of food for the next few days were off my shoulders.

Little did i expect that i had other RESPONSIBILITIES other than food.

Happily i was browsing the net. Well over 2.30 am, settled down for my sleep. Next thing i know is my cell ringing and it was my car-lift guys!!!. Well, little needs to be mentioned of the panic i went through to get myself all dressed & have my breakfast in just 5 mins and fled out of the house. As soon as got into the car, i started feeling that the door is not locked, ac & lights are not switched off, the tap is left running,................. Well, an endless list. A fine way to start a journey.

At collage, the day went fine and reached home all starving. As soon as i entered my home, i peeped into the kitchen to see what was for lunch(i forgot that my mom is not around). Not seeing anything there, i went up to the dining table expecting my lunch to be waiting there. And only on seeing my breakfast plate on the table did i realize that i was enjoying my freedom & the bitter price i had to pay for that was RESPONSIBILITIES.............

Sound of Silence

"Sound of Silence", that's the nickname i use on MSN. And i had many ppl asking me as to what exactly was the meaning that. And i am actually tried of xplaining to the world what its all about. So, i thought it will a good idea to put it on my blog and next time someone ask me, i will just direct them to here.

Actually, there is nothing much to xplain b'coz its all a very simple concept.

If u really want to know what is the Soundof Silence, all you have to do is quietly sit in a quite place and if to tell the way my KG teacher puts it - "pin-drop silence". And try to listen to all the sound that u can hear in that silent room. Well, then what ever happens is all personalized.

For me, it was like a chat session with the Divine Power. Mainly when i have some kind of trouble, this is what i do - listen to the "Sound of Silence" and i am able to face the troubles in a positive way.

As i mentioned earlier, the effect is all personalized. This actually helped SOME of the people. While, other didn't actually feel anything at all. And this actually help one my friend to get a sound sleep !!!!